I haven't reached the stage of discussing this with a consultant yet (I'm around 20 weeks) but I have spoken with midwives who have given me literature. What I wonder is since the literature says the risks of vbac are 'insignificant', or 'very small', why they allow you to have another elective? Is
there more to it than meets the eye? Is this partly political (consultants vs midwives fiefdoms?)?
Also, one thing that irked me was the literature said bonding was easier with a natural birth. However, it didn't state what they meant by 'bonding' and they placed it in inverted commas (I don't think inverted commas belong anywhere in medical literature) What do they mean exactly?
Just reading that I was left with the impression that although after an elective for many reasons the second birth was effectively wiping the slate clean, so why offer an elective second time around, given the huge pressures on the NHS? We were
both left feeling there was more to this.
I am about 80 percent certain I want another elective section (no great desire to give birth naturally, no huge fuss either way, just it's not hugely important to my self esteem breastfeeding, however, is) the only reason I'd have a vbac is for even quicker recovery, but husband is a SAHD (more or less) so childcare and help with shopping isn't such a pressing issue. After my first I was up and about in 12 hours and lifting (even though I shouldn't have) stuff without a problem and swimming (eek) in 4 weeks. Driving isn't crucial, husband will
be around. I don't use prams and assume I can wrap carry the baby like I did my first.
I had an elective section with my first (in Singapore) as she was extended breech and I had preeclampsia so had her at 8 months. I recovered incredibly quickly and bfeeding no problem -- in fact, still breastfeeding her at (ahem) 2-1/2 years. No attachment problems here!