sorry, not very pleasant story coming up...
i was induced at 40+4 as the baby's heart rate was all over the place. they monitored the heart rate all day, then they decided to give me a pessary at 5pm. By 8pm I was feeling uncomfortable (along lines of v. mild period cramps), by midnight I was having v. severe period cramps, went to speak to the duty MW and she said 'could you be in labour dear?' I felt like a right tool for not having thought the cramps could have been contractions! by 4am I was in agony, having had 2-minutely contractions since midnight, but they would only give me paracetamol as I wasn't on labour ward, and there was no G&A available on pre-natal. I had a lovely hot soak in a warm bath for an hour which helped, but contractions eventually got too painful and I got out.
I couldn't sit or lie down at all as was too painful. By 10am I had totally had enough, was exhausted and still hadn't been taken through to labour ward. by 12.30 my waters finally broke, and the contractions then came every minute so they finally took me through to labour ward. I asked immediately for an epidural or pethidine 'GIVE ME DRUGS' was my constant request, but they kept refusing as I was 'too far dilated' apparently. I was told to push from 3pm until 8pm despite baby not having descended down the birth canal, and me being in excruciating pain. kept asking to see a consultant, but it was only when I pretty much passed out, that the MW finally got the consultant who said I shouldn't have been pushing (no sh!t Sherlock) as baby wasn't in position. Whipped me straight to theatre to have forceps delivery as baby and me in distress. 10 mins later I was given an epidural and 10 mins after that DD born.
lessons to take away from my experience:
*only have an induction if medically necessary. Baby will come out when they are ready (even if you think you cannot possibly last another day!)
- contractions tend to come on v. quickly and strongly once had pessary/gel
- ask to have a bath if you can - helped to ease aching muscles
- Make sure you have an advocate with you who can demand a second opinion if needed
- demand pain relief if you want/need it and keep demanding
- ask to see ward sister/duty MW if needed.
Most important of all - GOOD LUCK!