Hello, I'm zgaze's sister who had the breech baby on the living room floor floor :)
With the greatest respect CandidaB, (and I am not sure whether you have had a negative experience of breech birth) your comment was very unhelpful to someone facing a scary prospect on their own, and I'm glad that posters have come along since that post with more supportive and constructive comments for taytotayto. Firstly, having a breech is not necessarily more risky. Secondly, it is about the mother not wanting to have a c-section, and thirdly, breech is not necessarily an unfavourable position! I did a LOT of research on this few months ago!
Medical professionals are starting to realise that breech is just a 'variation' of normal. In a way, having a baby is in itself taking a risk. I was told by the consultant at the hospital that having a breech birth doubles the chance of having a problem with the labour/birth- from 1.5% to 3%. That is a doubling of risk, but the consultant himself said to me this is a matter of perspective- you can also look at it as a small increase in risk of 1.5%. Imagine if all women said 'why would you want to take a risk having a baby, there is a 1.5% risk of something going wrong?! Where would the human race be then... :)
C- section carries it's own risks- you only have to do a bit of googling to find those out. For me personally the c-section risks outweighed the risks of a natural breech birth. I made the right decision for me- I'm self employed in a very physical job and with a child already I knew I had to try to avoid major abdominal surgery and then the subsequent recovery time if I could.
I decided myself on a natural birth in hospital and I was lucky that I was promised a midwife with a lot of experience to be on call for the weeks around my due date (good old NHS), although in the end only met her once and that was when I went in to chat with her at 37 weeks. She was SO BLASE about it- it was talking to her that helped me make my final decision. To her, breech was not a problem at all, as long as it is handled in the right way (ie, hands OFF the breech- google Mary Cronk).
My own breech birth was much easier than my first (normal head first) birth. My son's bottom, and then torso paved the way for his harder rounder head, so it wasn't such a shock to my fanjo area. I kid you not I was running up and down the stairs answering the door to relatives that afternoon of the morning he was born. I didn't tear, and it didn't really hurt afterwards.
There are 3 things that I think you need to think of which are very important in this situation. You need to look at you own personal fitness levels. Are you fit and healthy? You need to be fit to go through labour and birth in the first place, let alone a potentially more problematic one. You need to make sure the midwives and consultants you have around you in your labour are knowledgeable in the area of breech, and COMPLETELY supportive of your choice. In the end I didn't have a midwife with me at all, but I knew they were supportive of me and I honestly believe that that knowledge helped me give birth easily even without them there. And thirdly trust in your body knowing what to do. Sorry to sound like a hippy but it?s true. There was one moment (when my son?s body was out and his head in) where I realised that there was no one there to advise me and I saw 2 paths ahead of me. I knew I could either tense up and panic or trust my body- I knew I had to do the latter and the final contraction was actually really gentle and eased him out with no problem.
Of course, I had a good experience and there will of course be negative stories out there. You may have realised I'm quite pro natural breech ;-) But if I?d been in hospital and there had been any whiff of a problem I?d have been in for my c-section straight away with no complaints blowing big kisses again to the NHS. C sections saved my sister and nephew?s, and best friend and godson?s lives, so I know they can literally be lifesavers. If you think you can go for a natural birth though you go for it- if you are in the hospital and anything goes wrong they can whip you in for a c section amazingly quickly? but I bet you will be fine ;) x