I'd like some advice please plus I just want to let off steam about a very frustrating and upsetting hospital appt with my doctor yesterday.
Im 4 mths gone with 2nd DC and because I had a traumatic birth with DC1 I was referred by midwife to speak with doctor.
First birth was a nightmare. Found out I had Group B Strep during preg but was reassured that I would get IV antibiotics during labour, however in the event I laboured so quickly that I never got the recommended 4 hrs dose, plus I was stitched up incorrectly after the birth and got rushed into theatre to have a blood clot removed. It was awful, though I was going to die. Plus I had high blood pressure towards the end of the pregnancy so I had to be monitored. I was 'high risk' and under consultant care.
As I didn't get my antibiotics during labour, DC1 had to go to Special care unit, twice a day, for 7 days, for doses of antibioitics. Her infection markers were high. I had to fight to get her treatment, as the doctor wasn't going to treat her. Got told afterwards, off the record, by a midwife, 'Good for you, you did the right thing'
I really don't want a repeat of last time, it was traumatic for me and DC1. So, I said to the doctor: 'Will a C-section eliminate the risk of Group B Strep' and she said, 'Yes, but you can't have a C-section. If you developed pre-eclamipsia or baby was breech, then yes you can have one. Group B strep is not enough reason for a C-Section'
My question to you all is this, can I question this decision? Do I not have a choice? I am also experiencing flashbacks and bad dreams because of the blood clot (it took a while for doctors to realise there was something wrong with me, even tho I was bleeding loads and my mum & partner kept trying to get them to help me) I told the doctor this and she is referring me to the hospitals Womens Health Counsellor. FFS!!!
Sorry it's along msg and sory for spelling errors. All advice gratefullly recieved.