Hello all 
I'm posting this query on behalf of my friend and really hope someone can help.
She is 32 weeks pregnant with DC1 and is having a hard time with our midwives in the area (I'm expecting DC4 but never had any SPD so can't advise
). She has severe SPD and is on crutches, you can plainly see how much pain she is in & she already suffered with hip/pelvis problems since childhood. When she had an internal recently (other issues) she literally could not open her legs properly.
The problem is she is certain she wants a C-Section as she can not face labour with the severity of the SPD on top of it. I have had a good long chat to her about the pros & cons (2 VBs & a CS under my belt, plus worked with CMWs until maternity leave started)& have made sure she knows the risks involved.
The issue is that our hospital (which covers a huge geographical area) does NOT offer epidurals AT ALL
!! Its not an MLU (I'm under Cons care) but they do not offer them! Despite discussing her valid fears with the midwife she has been fobbed off non stop and is at the point of breaking down in tears
. She is convinced that she will not be allowed a C-Section and feels she has no rights or support. The MW hasnt even referred her to a consultant to discuss it.
I had a long chat to her & just wondered if anyone can offer up any further advice for her. Bless her she is sick with worry. I genuinely think that the reassurance of an ELCS will make all the difference, and I feel that she has very valid reasons for it!
Sorry for the LONNNNNNG post! 
Any help MUCH appreciated! x