Had my first consultant appt today to discuss birth options and I'm now even more confused about what I want.
First birth, 2+ years ago, was crash c-section at 38 weeks , no labour/contractions, no dilation due to placental abruption . was v v lucky as no bleeding and baby's apgars were 9 and 10 as I got to the hospital almost as soon as problems began.
so up to today was convinced I wanted an Elective c-section this time as effectively this will be my first labour and also I'm worried could have another AP - about 5% chance of repeat , and I'm older now (will be 43 at birth) with not such a happy outcome.
Doctor today really tried to convince me to have a VBAC , playing up the risks of surgery but I know I would spend the last weeks of the preganancy worrying that every little twinge or ache was the start of something really horrible.
I'm looking for positive stories of either a Elective c-section or of VBAC to help me make up my mind which way to go.
:-)