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Anyone else 'tricked' out of epidural?

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liznay · 10/02/2011 17:25

I went over my birth notes today at the 'Birth Reflections' service at my local hospital. (In order to get closure and prepare for No 2!)
To cut a long story short, My previous labour was 27 hours from start to finish although I was only admitted for the last 7 hours.

I asked for an epidural no less than 6 times during this period and was given the excuse that I needed to be 4 cm before I could get one.
Suprise, Suprise, no one would examine me to check how dilated I was and so then it became 'too late' to give me once I had reached 10 cm.
Despite Nice guidelines saying that no woman should be refused an epidural (even in the latent first stage!) apparently the hospital have their own policy.
I am SO ANGRY about this and feel that I was ignored and treated like a small child. Incidentally, the hospital are unapologetic about this and refused to say sorry about the care I received. The most that they would conceed was that they had 'somehow failed me'.
Why is this still happening to us in the 21st century? Anyone else had a similar experience? What can we do about it, and how can we prevent it happening for subsequent births? It's time that midwives stopped deciding for us how much pain relief we need and consult with us regarding how to make our births more comfortable. Not saying that all midwives are like this, but mine was a particular dragon....Grin
I don't want this to turn into a debate on the pro's/cons of epidurals as this has been done to death elsewhere...

OP posts:
susie100 · 16/02/2011 15:28

The point about communication is very valid. I donlt have a link but wasn't there a study that showed that if you knew, understood and could see what was happening to you,you felt less pain?

MistyValley · 16/02/2011 15:37

"But womens' bodies are designed to cope!"

Well, firstly, people aren't 'designed', they are the result of random combinations of genes. Some gene expressions are anatomically and physiologically 'good' for the physical rigours of childbirth, and some not so much.

So you can't apply the 'well designed' thing to all women. In the same way as you can't say that all people are well designed to be pole vaulters or whatever.

And yes, I get the argument that some women don't really get a good shot at finding out whether they are well designed are not, because of bad preparation and care. But they are NOT all well-designed in the first place.

MistyValley · 16/02/2011 15:54

And actually, sometimes it just isn't relevant how 'well-designed' the mother is - for example if there are problems with the baby, placenta, or umbilical cord. Which strictly speaking aren't actually part of the woman's body at all.

expatinscotland · 16/02/2011 16:08

'Although having said that, there is an argument that it got a lot harder for homo sapiens when we started walking upright.'

It's not an argument, it's an anthropological fact. Because of bipedal locomotion, the human female gives birth to a far more immature, defenseless infant than her closest relative, the chimp. Bipedal locomotion means a shorter pelvis, a shorter gestation time, a more immature infact and, left entirely to nature, a far higher maternal mortality rate compared to other great apes.

The advantage, however, was enough that evolution kept moving in that direction, minus a percentage of females dying in childbirth and a significant percentage of infants as well.

elbowgrease · 16/02/2011 16:09

That's interesting. Is there a study comparing morbidity and mortality outocomes of a group of women who are not allowed caesareans versus a group of women who are not? Could you let me have a reference?

I take it Ushy that you mean elective over emergency? I would think that the overall risks are the same. However, an emergency is just that isn't it? So, obviously there will be additional risk factors added,such as the additional risks that led to an emergency c-section.

You can get the mortality figures from CEMACH.

MaryMungo · 16/02/2011 16:33

The physical aspects of childbirth are not an evolutionary pinnacle as far as the mother's body is concerned. It's enough that the infants produced survive. Darwin doesn't give a toss that you might spend 48 hours in agonising pain as long as that all-important fetal head circumference ensures a babe that lives to reproductive age.

elbowgrease · 16/02/2011 16:33

Susie100:
"The point about communication is very valid. I donlt have a link but wasn't there a study that showed that if you knew, understood and could see what was happening to you,you felt less pain?"

I am not sure, but it would make sense Susie :D

Cleofartra · 16/02/2011 16:36

"with the largest head size that can possibly pass through a female pelvis whilst killing off no more than a third of us"

Where did you get the idea from that one third of women would die in childbirth without surgical intervention?

In the 1960s the c/s rate in the UK was 5%. The maternal death rate at that time was about 30 in 100 000 births.

Cleofartra · 16/02/2011 16:40

Meant to add - apparently a maternal death rate of 1 in 100 is the highest historical rate recorded in the UK, and that was in the early 1800's.

mathanxiety · 16/02/2011 16:50

OK, so in place of antibiotics what would you suggest, Alimat? Spitting on infection sites? Rubbing some mud in? 200 babies died in the UK from GBS; would their parents have preferred routine ABs or your cautious approach? ABs do far more good than harm. They are not bad things to be shunned.

And one 'chance' you mentioned was not a 1 in 1000 'chance', it was 1 in 15,000. I personally would take that chance.

My objection to most of the alleged 'risks' being waved about here is that those crying wolf are not stating what the real risk is. 1 in 1,000 is a long, long way from 1 in 15,000.

As for the claim that US maternity care has a different ethos from the UK -- not so. Same slop, different bucket. Practices in US hospitals do not vary all that much from the UK, though they vary greatly from hospital to hospital and even from doctor to doctor, or MW to MW. If anything, there's an even greater pressure to 'perform' in the US, women there have low bfing rates and have to return to work much earlier. And afterwards there's no HV to come round.

'Math - ages ago you asked how often we give out tinzaparin as you didnt believe it was a big problem for postnatal women dying of DVT.
In my unit I would think that 1:4 women go home on 7 days of tinz and around 1:15 go home with 6 weeks supply.'
I don't know how you managed to misread me so thoroughly. I didn't believe the cost should be touted as a big problem. I didn't believe increased monitoring after an epidural was causing DVT/ VTE problems or deaths.

Again, read what I posted about the causes of DVT. They are not labour/ epidural/ monitoring related, which was the context of my remarks. DVT is a byproduct of pregnancy, beginning at 16 weeks, with risk increasing to term. You tried to suggest it was the increased need for monitoring with epidurals, and women lying in bed during labour instead of moving about, that caused it. You were misinformed.

Here's a RCOG information publication (pdf) about DVT. Heparin is used to prevent clots during pregnancy and is continued after birth for those who have used it up to birth maybe these patients account for some of your 1 in 15? You can bfeed with heparin and it does not cross the placenta. Apparently the only problem with heparin is that an epidural cannot be given until 12 hours after the last injection of heparin, if a woman has been using it during pregnancy. And get this "You will have the option of alternative pain relief" -- Not in some hospitals you won't. Here the RCOG apparently sees no problem with heparin, states that it is used to control conditions related to pregnancy itself, not to lying in bed during labour, and also seems to say that pain relief raises no eyebrows.

You also told us how much a 6 week course of tinzaparin costs for that 1 in 15 woman £995 as if that should be a consideration when deciding if a woman should get an epidural. If cost is going to be factored in then women should just squat where they are when pushing time comes and avoid hospitals and prenatal care altogether. I marvel at your priorities.

Apparently:
Monitoring = bad
Effective pain relief = risk of death for mum and baby
Antibiotics = the work of the devil, and not the way forward
Costs associated with childbirth in hospital = unconscionable
Real statistics to back up scaremongering = to be avoided
Tell all that to my mum's cousin, the now retired district midwife, and she would laugh in your face.

From RCOG statement on NICE Clinical Guideline 55, Intrapartum Care: Note that the requesting of epidurals and the prevention of unnecessary pain are seen as an advantage of having women labour in freestanding birth units as opposed to delivering at home (the context of the paragraph). 'Co-located unit ... also provides women with the option to request an epidural for pain relief. It avoids long waiting times and a possible ?rough? ride in an ambulance when mothers are already in pain or in the second stage of labour.'

Cleo -- wrt VEs. Yes, VEs are intrusive and yes they are done despite that, because they are one very useful way of assessing progress in labour. You can check whether the cervix is ripe or open and how far labour is advanced when a woman first turns up at the hospital. You can check progress of cervical opening, and effacement, and how far the baby has descended, plus whether baby's head or some other part is engaging, and whether the head is facing front or back. They are not the only way, but one way. To say an epidural cannot be administered until a VE is done and then refuse to perform one and end up with a patient who does not therefore receive effective pain relief is just cruel. If VEs are to be avoided, then other signs can surely be used in order to provide clues about timing for the purposes of an epidural?

And furthermore, it is a huge contradiction to express concern for the how women feel about VEs, concern about their intrusiveness and the feeling that someone has poked their fingers up to your tonsils, yet argue against epidurals. I suspect that most women given a choice between having a VE or going without an epidural would choose that VE, intrusiveness be damned.

OBs in private practice in the UK see 'normal' patients. Same in Ireland, where there's a dual state/ private system and proportionately more private patients. They train far longer than midwives do and have a basic general medical and pharmacological education that is far superior to midvives' education before specialising. Outline of training here from RCOG. They specialise in pregnancy, labour and delivery and their training encompasses both normal and unusual situations.

Arsebiskits, you really don't like The Man, do you? 'It is the midwife's responsibility to provide the evidence, where it is available, as to the risks and benefits of any intervention. But if that same client group is going to call midwives' integrity into question, or simply refuse to believe what they're saying, then there's no point in us even practicing. Being 'with woman' goes deeper than just saying, "yes, you must have that intervention because you want it, and of course you must have it right now because you stamped your foot, no of course it won't cause you any harm." Being 'with woman' involves telling the truth about interventions then supporting their informed choice.' That statement is one of the most arrogant and contempt-filled I have seen about any group of patients and about any medical professional's mission. Everyone involved in L&D is out of step except you apparently. The integrity of midwives is called into question when they fudge facts and present risk as likelihood, and omit pertinent information like actual figures -- 1 in 15,000 for instance.

WRT CS rates -- the foremost factor contributing to CS rates is maternal obesity.

Poppyella -- 'facts as they happen in real life' are not statistics. They are anecdotes. If you feed your patients anecdotes you are not telling them facts, you are not telling them what the real risks are. You are recounting your own experience and they are not the same things at all.

And as to assuming I went back 5 times so it couldn't have been that bad for me my own experiences (one epidural, four non-epidural, three inductions, two spontaneous labours need a venn diagram here -- one lazy, horrible, mendacious nurse and all the rest fab) have nothing at all to do with my thoughts on the way other women are treated. My arguments here are based on facts and not my own personal experience masquerading as the ultimate truth (in contrast to what many of the MWs here seem to be doing); the idea that if I got on ok why should I be bothered by the experiences of others is a cold one indeed.

Ushy · 16/02/2011 17:01

Elbow grease* "Is there a study comparing morbidity and mortality outocomes of a group of women who are not allowed caesareans versus a group of women who are not? Could you let me have a reference?

I take it Ushy that you mean elective over emergency? I would think that the overall risks are the same. However, an emergency is just that isn't it? So, obviously there will be additional risk factors added,such as the additional risks that led to an emergency c-section. "

Emergency caesarean carries over five times the risk of mortality for the mother than planned elective - look on page 13 and use hospital data to get the denominator.(CEMACH)

A midwife poster said "The c/s rate isn't a reflection of womens' inability to give birth vaginally, it's a reflection of the medicalisation of childbirth." Confused

Therefore if you don't have any "medicalistion" you shouldn't have any caesareans. Of course not - you'll have alot of death and brain damage.

It was a bit of a tongue in cheek questionWink

DrMcDreamy · 16/02/2011 17:01

Well why bother with midwives at all then? If docs are the holy grail of obstetric practice?

Cleofartra · 16/02/2011 17:03

"OBs in private practice in the UK see 'normal' patients"

There are only a tiny, tiny number of low risk women having private obstetric care in the UK.

"They train far longer than midwives do and have a basic general medical and pharmacological education that is far superior to midvives' education before specialising"

So why are the outcomes for low risk mothers who give birth under obstetric care poorer than for mothers delivered by midwives?

Cleofartra · 16/02/2011 17:12

"Monitoring = bad"

If continuous monitoring for low risk mothers doesn't reduce neonatal mortality and morbidity and does increase c/s rates than how can it be a good thing?

"Effective pain relief = risk of death for mum and baby"

Have I missed someone saying or implying that epidurals are highly dangerous?

"Antibiotics = the work of the devil, and not the way forward"

Are there no counter arguments for a regime of blanket screening and prophylactic a/b's for GBS? You seem to be saying that not supporting screening and widespread antibiotic use is completely irrational and fanatical. My understanding is that there are serious arguments on both sides of the debate.

"Costs associated with childbirth in hospital = unconscionable"

While we don't have enough midwives to make childbirth in the UK as safe as it needs to be for women at the moment it's hard to argue for an increase in the availability of expensive medical technology for the relief of pain. I'd be all for hugely increasing the spend on maternity care - but it's hard o justify increasing money spent on things which don't appear to improve clinical outcomes for mothers or babies.

Ushy · 16/02/2011 17:15

Cleo "So why are the outcomes for low risk mothers who give birth under obstetric care poorer than for mothers delivered by midwives?"

There's a good reason for that. Bad outcomes are considered to be interventions including epidurals. What happens is that women self select. Those wanting pain relief and who are open to earlier intervention rather than hanging on for a protracted vaginal birth tend to opt for consultant unit. They do have more 'intervention' but there is a very good study showing that is actually want they want.

Women more motivated to go for natural birth tend to go for midwifery led and they end up with less intervention - mainly of the pain relief type.

BecauseItoldYouSo · 16/02/2011 17:16

So why are the outcomes for low risk mothers who give birth under obstetric care poorer than for mothers delivered by midwives? - The outcomes may be worse in the UK where Ob/Gyn's mainly deal with high risk patients rather than 'normal' pregnancies and as you said a very small percentage of women in private care.

This is not however the case in other countries where Ob/Gyn's are the primary carer for women. Canada is a very good example. As per WHO figures given in a one of my earlier posts I gave the figures in Canada are in fact better than the UK for many maternity issues and OB/Gyn's have handled care of pregnant women for a very long time. Midwives were illegal in Canada for a very long time, In fact midwives are still not allowed to practice at many, many hospitals.

I gave birth in the UK so have first hand experience of the UK system. I initially met with midwives at my local NHS hospital which actually led to a very serious complaint being lodged with the Head of Midwives and Head of Nursing of the hospital. This was then further escalated to the Chairman of the hospital and the local PCT. I was moved from that hospital to another hospital where I sought the services of an OB/Gyn privately. The care that I received was far superior. I then carried on to see the same OB/Gyn that I paid for privately as an NHS patient in and NHS hospital. So yes OB/Gyn's do deal with women here on the NHS, I experienced it first hand.

Ushy · 16/02/2011 17:18

Cleo
" it's hard to argue for an increase in the availability of expensive medical technology for the relief of pain. I'd be all for hugely increasing the spend on maternity care - but it's hard o justify increasing money spent on things which don't appear to improve clinical outcomes for mothers or babies."

I have just read that and I despair
Sad

DontHateThePlayerHateTheGame · 16/02/2011 17:19

Some comments on this site are very american-ised. I would give up my career right here right now if I ever had to practice in the american way.

Cleofartra · 16/02/2011 17:28

"They do have more 'intervention' but there is a very good study showing that is actually want they want"

What, they actually want more perineal damage, c/s, forceps and ventouse without any corresponding improvement in neonatal outcomes? Confused

I don't think so.

"Women more motivated to go for natural birth tend to go for midwifery led and they end up with less intervention - mainly of the pain relief type"

No. They end up with lower c/s and instrumental birth rates. Particularly those who give birth at home.

"The outcomes may be worse in the UK where Ob/Gyn's mainly deal with high risk patients rather than 'normal' pregnancies"

Actually I was referring to studies of outcomes for comparable groups of low risk mothers.

Ushy - you can despair as much as you like. There are finite resources available for health care in this country, like it or not. The money has to be spent in such a way as to best protect the health of mothers and babies. If there aren't enough midwives to provide safe care for all mothers in labour then HOW can we justify using limited resources for improving women's access to pain relief?

MaryMungo · 16/02/2011 17:31

I was looking at mortality rates for nomadic tribes, which vary between 5-15% of pregnancies ending in maternal death, assuming that those statistics would most mimic conditions during which our pelvises evolved. In some of these groups up to half of women die of childbearing related conditions.

Cleofartra · 16/02/2011 17:34

BecauseItoldyouSo - the worst thing about NHS care is the 'post code lottery'. Some women in the UK get very fragmented and poor quality antenatal care. They go into hospital to give birth and may be left alone for long periods during labour, because there aren't enough midwives to provide one to one care for all mothers.

On the other hand they may have access to a case-loading team, in which case they may get one named midwife who may do all their antenatal appointments at the mother's own home. This midwife will be on call for them for more or less the entire pregnancy - they will have a mobile number for her and can phone her for advice at any time. When labour starts the midwife will then take the mother into hospital, or to a beautifully equipped, state of the art birth centre, deliver her baby, visit her once she gets home after birth almost daily for ten days, and finally sign her over to the health visitor at 28 days post-partum. In other words, amazing NHS midwifery care is available to some women, comparable to anything you can get privately.

Cleofartra · 16/02/2011 17:37

"assuming that those statistics would most mimic conditions during which our pelvises evolved"

Yes - because the environments these tribes live in today are identical to the ones they were living in a hundred thousand years ago aren't they? Hmm

Really though - what does that contribute to the debate about safer childbirth among modern women in the UK?

MaryMungo · 16/02/2011 17:42

Well, certainly more identical than Oxford circa 1833. The contribution I was trying to make is that you can't fob off women's requests for pain relief on the basis of "Well, your body was made for it". They're not that made for it.

BecauseItoldYouSo · 16/02/2011 17:43

For me it is not about 'Americanising' anything. I have lived in 9 different countries and as I am a mother have mother friends in all of the countries that I have lived. I have an understanding of how things are done in many different places and can balance both the good and the bad. I do not agree with any singular practice but I am able to learn from my experiences in they way things are done with different outlooks.

The way things are done in the UK is not the 'only good way' to do things. The world is a very large place and there are millions of women birthing everyday and I think it is very important to look at how things are done in other destintations and constantly improve on what you do at home.

Healthy, Happy women and babies are the most important factor in maternity services.

Cleofartra · 16/02/2011 17:55

"you can't fob off women's requests for pain relief on the basis of "Well, your body was made for it". They're not that made for it".

MaryMungo - are we talking about pain relief for normal labour here or are we talking about the need for interventions such as c/s?

How does that leave countries like Holland, where maternal mortality rates are very low, despite the face that they have a 30% homebirth rate and a correspondingly low epidural rate compared to other industrialised countries?

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