This is DC3 - DC1 arrived spontaneously (and quickly!) at 36w6d. I had preterm labour with DC2 at 34 weeks which stopped, but I ended up having her at 35w5d as I had an infection via EMCS.
My babies (so far) are always BIG - 95th percentile when born. They come out screaming with maximum apgars, and come home with me, despite the theoretical prematurity. I honestly don't think my body is supposed to bake them for 40 weeks - there is a reason I have not made it to term yet.
This time out I require an ELCS as I have a permanent stitch in so the only exit is through the sunroof. I could labour for eternity and all I'd get would be a ruptured uterus (which means if I went into labour pre ELCS it could be.. interesting) This is compounded by the fact I am prone to precipitous labours. Plus we need to schedule out childcare and haven't got any emergency form of childcare. So I really, really don't want an emergency situation.
Ideally, so long as everything checks out of course, I'd like an ELCS scheduled for 37 weeks or a few days after - full term, but I would actually possibly stand a chance of reaching it. 38 weeks I'm pretty sure I won't and never mind 39 weeks.
As you can probably guess, my consultant won't schedule an ELCS before 38 weeks despite all these mitigating circumstances. However I don't like my consultant much and I am planning on going somewhere else anyway.
To compound it all I have seriously bad SPD (to the extent even my osteopath doesn't have a clue how to fix it) and have done since 16 weeks - I can't walk more than a few yards (and I'm in pain for that) and I have two young DCs I have fulltime care of. So the sooner the better for that reason too although it's the least of my concerns really. My main one is the sudden labour/uterine rupture fear which my current consultant won't even listen to me over.
Has anyone managed to get a baby via ELCS any earlier than 38 weeks? Was it with a consultant in a south east London hospital by any chance and if so who?
Or.. can anyone recommend a consultant at a hospital that actually, you know, LISTENS to their patient? Probably asking a bit much with that one though..