Hi all,
I'm more of a luker than a poster but not been able to find any posts about this so thought I would take the plunge.
Had ds 2.6 years ago via elcs for breech after failed evc. Experience was great and apart from scar rupture and infection at 10 weeks pp it was a totally positive experience.
I'm now 36 weeks pregnant with dc 2 and got consultant appt tom to discuss birth. This is the first contact I have had with any consultant at all this pregnancy and have basically just been left to it! Had a so called vbac clinic appt at about 15 weeks with a midwife who essentially just told me about the hospial policy of vbac, continual monitoring etc, no water labouribg and time restrictions before saying 'you'll be fine' and writing 'happy for vbac' in my notes. To be honest it was a bit of a blur and I had no time to digest anything or ask many questions.
Fast forward to now snd I have been doing a lot of thinking about the birth, a vbac v another elcs and also what tomorrow will hold. Basically I'm just wondering if anyone else has recently been in this boar? Did you get a choice at your appt about vbac or elcs and what did you do? I know all the risks of both and still have mo idea. I guess I'm stressing at the thought of a potentially difficult snd managed vbac that could result in tears etc but also know from experience how hard an elcs can be, especially with a toddler..
Sorry for the ramble!