DS1 was 10lb (and I am small size 10 person). he got stuck and I needed last minute epidurala dn forceps delivery. I have requested a home birth (or birthing centre at least) for DC2 but MW has strongly advised against it as "likely to be bigger, risk of shoulder Dys-whotsit etc". She than said maybe ok if it is a girl as may be smaller. I will try to find out sex this time, what do you think and wwyd? Thanks.