Hi all,
After spending my pregnancy researching labouring techniques, birthing methods etc. that do would hopefully help me avoid having an epidural I've been told that the baby is in an 'awkward posterior' position (though she may move I'm preparing myself for the worst).
I didn't like to idea of being numb and not having any children previously I don't know how to push properly. I know some mners have had ok experiences with forceps I am very against their use so was hoping if I had active labour and got in a favourable position for birthing I could try and avoid them (actually hoping for a waterbirth). However, my midwife has told me that 'it would be hard to deliver a posterior baby without an epidural for the pain' and also the likelihood of intervention is increased anyway taking into account the baby's awkward position.
TBH if I'm going to need an epidural to deliver, or require intervention anyway I am thinking I may as well have it early on now and save myself the pain. Does anyone have any experiences similar to this? Were forceps required for delivery? If I clearly state that I would not agree to forceps and if it looked to be going that way I would rather have a C-section do you think the midwives/drs would listen?
Thanks