I had a hideous time with DC1 with the epidural last time. It didn't work properly on my left hand side so I would get a lot of pain within about 15 mins - I know that is just one of those things that can happen and may well not happen next time - but the main problem was that each top up - which happened frequently because it wasn't working very well - caused my blood pressure to drop like a stone, making me feel very faint and nauseous and completely out of it. I wanted to curl up in a ball or lie on my side, but had to be flat on my back because of being continuously monitored due to worries about DS and them not being able to get any reading when I was moved. It was all pretty hideous and went on for about 8 hours. I am petrified of this happening again, much more so than the pain of labour.
Anyway, my birth plan this time takes account of lots of different pain relief and I am very very keen to avoid an epidural this time in case the low blood pressure thing happens again, because that would mean I couldn't in any way be mobile as I would probably just faint.
The problem is, I am now 41+0 and this baby is showing zero signs of being ready. Although there is still a good chance I'll go into labour naturally, I'm booked in for induction on Friday. Obviously that increases the likelihood that I won't be able to cope without an epidural - everyone I know who has had syntocinon has either had an epidural beforehand or demanded it immediately afterwards given the 0 to 60 impact it has on their body.
So now I'm panicking about whether my really bad reaction to an epidural last time is likely to occur again - i.e. are side effects like mine specific to me and will occur each time, or specific to a situation and therefore may well not happen again.
I have a mw appt on Tues and will talk through it then, but she probably won't know the answer and I probably won't get chance to talk to an anaesthetist who might know more until Friday. So just wondered if anyone has had this happen and what the outcome was second time round