Firstly, I've posted this on the vbac support thread too but thought i would start this thread in case not many people saw it on the other one, so apologies if anyone reads this twice!
Just wondering if anyone had any advice at all... I had my 34 week midwife appointment yesterday which went fairly well.
I showed her my birth plan and it mainly contained things to support hypnobirthing and also stated that I didn't consent to continuous monitoring unless it was via telemetry (which they have at this hospital) so that means I can still move around and use the pool too. I had spoken to her about this before and she said that they would be supportive of that and they still are.
Anyway, they have one room with a pool which is right in the middle of the delivery unit and the midwife led unit and can be accessed either side from both. I asked her, if this room/the pool wasn't free could I use a room in the midwife led unit (as I'm not having continuous monitoring anyway I thought that would be the main reason to have to go the the main unit?) and she just gave me a very blunt "no" and that that unit is only for low risk etc even without the monitoring (even though it is next door to the main unit anyway so hardly far to go if there was an emergency!).
I didn't know how to respond to this - do I have any rights in the instance?
I know I could try and get in contact with the head of midwifery to discuss but I'm also uneasy about creating a battle when they are already letting me use the pool (which is good) and I'm not sure if I want the stress of putting up a fight to use it iyswim. I am seeing the consultant in 2 weeks to discuss. Is there anything I can say that may change their minds? I guess I could threaten a home birth but again I hate confrontation and don't want to cause myself any stress either really....
It seems silly I can't use it IMO