Just thinking about my birth plan for number 2 due in three weeks. I had a quick (5 hr) labour with DS and managed with gas and air and pethedine. I did however feel totally out of control, had no idea how to push and was convinced they were using a trumpet instead of a ventouse to deliver my baby! I'm keen to feel more in control this time and without the orchestra - anyone know whether it was likely to be the G&A or the pethedine which made me so spacey? I'm not actually convinced that the pethedine made any difference to the pain relief so am more than likely to avoid it this time anyway.