My children have been going to supervised contact centre to see there dad for the past few months but the report done by superviser at the centre had says they recomend a familiy therapist due to my children bringing up in conversation every visit about being abused by there father times like when he kicked them punched them pulled them around by the hair of the head or whiped with wires or when there half brother drowned and suffocated them with a pillow he just replies to the kids iv never hit yous gaslighting the kids and the kids are geting upset shouting at him saying why are you lieing you hit us since we where babys only to be gaslit the report says he should admit to the things he has done in the past to move on as children are unsettled and reluctent to want to see him there is a ongoing police investigation into historical child abuse even the school have reported concerns to social work that the kids do not want to see him and there mental health and learning is effected every time they attend blocks of contact now the contact centre recomend family therapy but i am concerned about this therapy as i dont believe my children should have to be forced into contact i am court ordered the report even states there dad shows total disregard to contact centre advice as he speaks about court orders and tells the children you will be coming to live with me soon the children get scared they also ask to leave the centre early every time but are refused by staff what should i do i feel like my childrens mental health is going downhill there like cats on a hot tin roof before and after contact they have told contact centre they do not want to be here and now i feel therapy is another way to silence them and forced to forget about the abuse they received and witnesed being done to my self it all feels very strange the report more or less says he should admit to abusing kids but centre have not sent more dates for next block of contact i feel sick