Hi all,
My son is in Year 9 at an independent school, has ADHD (on medication since Dec 2023), and is doing exceptionally well ; 9s and 8s in exams, and part of the school rugby team. He’s clearly capable and thriving academically and in extracurriculars.
Despite this, he’s struggling socially and with some school routines. Many of his peers don’t really understand his ADHD, and some teacher responses; like sanctions for behaviours linked to ADHD, can actually make things harder for him rather than supporting him. He’s not neurotypical, so standard approaches don’t always work.
What’s frustrating is that ADHD isn’t really covered anywhere in school, not in PSHE, assemblies, or lessons. So staff and students may not know how to help him manage his behaviour or emotional regulation. I really feel that awareness could make a huge difference.
Has anyone else noticed this at their independent or state school? How do they raise awareness or support children with ADHD, both socially and emotionally?
Would love to hear your thoughts and experiences!