Hoping someone can shed some light on why! He’s 11 and about to go to secondary school. No history of MH issues and he’s neurotypical with a good friendship group. He’s reached a really irritating stage of disorganisation and I’m not sure how typical this is. He’s always been a bit chaotic and needs chivvying along on a morning especially but more recently, he’s started losing things because his bag/room is a shit tip and often his high value possessions end up getting broken (tablet screen cracked twice because he stood on it when it was under a pile of dirty washing, he’s lost Amazon gift cards, his glasses, contact lenses, broken his watch etc). If I remind him to do anything I get screamed at/attitude/door slammed. Consequences are given for the shouting/attitude (tech taken away etc), he apologises and we always talk things through afterwards but the pattern keeps on repeating itself. Is this standard normal pre-teen hormonal behaviour?? He does tidy his room occasionally but the next day it’s back to square one! He doesn’t seem to care if he’s broken things, it’s a shrug and an ‘oh well…’