I am completely at a loss and since last Thursday am now suffering with massive depression due to this.
Basically my friend who I wanted to help, was getting divorced and needed somewhere to live. I decided to let me house out, and did all I could to get it ready, painted, everything done so she could move in as soon as possible. I didnt want any rent upfront, bond I literally just wanted her and the kids to be happy.
My friend moved in and then not two days later social services turned up, it appears to be related to the man she was seeing, but not when the children were there. but he was round at the time when they turned up the children were not.
I did raise but to her face some slight concerns about him, but told her I trusted her.
Unfortunately, now she believe on 3 people knew about him, and everytning is pin pointing to me phoning social services, I didnt, I feel so sad, I have now been advised she no longer wants to be freinds, and want it to be a landlady tenant relationship.
i understand she feels betrayed by someone, but so do I, I only tried to help and only wanted to help, I feel like I have done everything I can, to have to now turned into a professional relationship.
What can I do, or do I walk away and just leave it as it is, I want her to be happy and would not ask her to leave the house, eventhough I have been accused of this, but my depression has really kicked back in
I was wondering if it could be someone on the other side of the family or something, but wasnt me