I have to be careful with information as it could land in me and my children in serious trouble so I apologise if it's vague.
My son (11) has a close friend (12) who spends alot of time at my house. His home life is beyond awful, both parents use drugs with abuse present in the home in the form of physical, emotional, mental and neglect.
One of the parents is very popular in the criminal side of things and is well known for violence.
This boy is very open with me, as I offer a safe space for him to relax and be himself (he acts up in school and at home, understandably) and he's told me some abhorrent things but, the parents know I'm the only person who would know, as he's been friends with my son for years.
I want to speak out to relevant authorities but fear the repercussions on myself and my boys if I do. It's getting so bad he's told me he doesn't want to live anymore and has begged for me to adopt him. He's been sworn to secrecy by his parents to not tell anyone about what happens at home, and fears a beating if he does.
I will always be a safe place for this boy, I have grown to really care for him and often replace worn out uniform when his either gets too small or had holes. If I speak out I put myself and my children in danger. I don't know what to do and my heart breaks when he knows he has to go home and asks to stay. He's currently sleeping upstairs but I know I have to let him go at some point.
Please please advise me.