I've just found out my 14 year old daughter has been self harmed. She's used a pencil sharpener blade on her arm.
She's told me she used to do it a couple of years ago and did it again 2 days ago because she was really upset.
Can anyone offer any advice please? She's just started seeing a counsellor who I will let know.
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Child mental health
Self harm
UpendedPineapple · 25/03/2024 19:41
toddlermam · 25/03/2024 21:58
Lots and lots of cuddles and I love you's.
I truly wish my mother had the same reaction as you. I self harmed at the exact same age and I spent my teenage years severely depressed.
I think the most important thing is you being there for her as much as humanly possible - feeling lonely whilst going through something like this makes things a million times worse.
If it's any comfort to you, I am in my mid 20s now and I'm very happy in life; I know your daughter will overcome this too. Wishing you all the best
Youhaveyourhandsfull · 25/03/2024 22:08
One of my daughters has done this on her arms and legs. She has a lot of scars as a result and I find warmer days very stressful as she will wear short sleeved tops etc. One thing I would say is she may get over this with help and not do it again- but relapses are common. My daughter was hugely better, mental health visibly much better- and then did it again quite badly. That was 6 months ago. She seems much better now- it's very hard not to take it personally but please don't, just be there for her and listen.
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