Hello all, I wonder if someone can advise.
My daughter is 14. She is on the pathway to an ASD and ADHD diagnosis. She has struggled dreadfully with severe anxiety and OCD type behaviours. She was in burnout this time last year, a really frightening time and I ended up deregistering her from school and she started having some counselling with an autism charity which continues to really help her. We were referred to and then withdrawn from ELCAS (the Lancashire version of CAMHS) as she was more willing to engage with and making some progress with the Autism Charity counselling.
A couple of months ago we hit a bump in the road and she was struggling so much with OCD that she was unable to leave the room alone, unable to complete simple tasks because of having to repeat things so many times and follow certain rituals etc. In desperation i went back to the GP who to my surprise agreed to prescribe 25mg of Setraline and referred us back to ELCAS. She continued attending counselling with the autism charity during this time. Six weeks on and things have improved a lot. The OCD behaviours are still there but she is able to function more, the quality of her life has definitely improved, she says she is much less anxious and this has opened up space for her to work on her thinking and manage her compulsions.
She has had two online assessments with ELCAS where they checked if she was suicidal or self harming and got basic info. She engaged in so far as she sat with me and nodded and shook her head in response to questions but didn't want to be on camera. We discussed how she engages better with her Autism Charity counsellor. ELCAS say she needs to be following a programme of CBT for her OCD and should not have been prescribed medication. ELCAS have had a meeting with the autism counsellor as I raised the issue that my daughter struggles to identify and understand her emotions and this needs to be taken into account in any CBT type programme. ELCAS agreed that she should continue working with the Autism Charity and that as there is a very long waiting list (months) we agreed to withdraw again from ELCAS.
ELCAS are continuing to say that the GP should not have prescribed medication and that if they had taken over her care they would have discontinued it. The GP are now saying that they've been told by ELCAS not to issue a repeat prescription. After a lot of phone calls I've managed to get an appointment with the prescribing GP on Monday. I am very concerned that if my daughter just comes off the medication suddenly it will have detrimental effects. I know it's not the only answer and believe me I have dedicated all my time and energy to supporting my daughter in every possible way since she began to struggle.
I know her and I know this medication has helped. I'm worried that both the GP and ELCAS will wash their hands of her. I feel as if we are about to fall through the gaps of a broken system. Can the GP just withdraw support like this? He may have made a mistake in prescribing in the first place but that's done now and actually it's a mistake that has helped us. I feel like I'm being judged, I know I'm being a nuisance but the whole system is just so broken and my child's wellbeing does not seem to be at the forefront.
Has anyone experienced anything like this? What would you do? What should I say on Monday?