Hi all, new to this and was looking for some advice. I’ll try keep it as short as I can. My eldest son who is 20 has terrible anxiety which could have been caused through various reasons as his dad walked out as he met someone else. He also smoked cannibis for a few years when he was younger (which I didn’t know about) and the doctor seems to think a lot of the way he is has been caused by this as well. My son now doesn’t go out at all and I’ve met someone else whom I’ve been seeing for 4 years but it’s getting to the stage that my eldest is beginning to rule things. When I want to go through and see my partner he’s trying to stop me by saying he isn’t feeling good. He’s very angry, stressed, and very manipulating. I am very on edge with him and I’ve also got two other children who are 16 and 11. I know they can be scared of him too but he’s not like that all the time. He’s had counselling which didn’t really help and the medication isn’t doing much either. I’m at my wits end as I’m so stressed and my relationship with a lovely man isn’t looking great either because of all this. Anyone else going through this? What do you do?