Dd was wearing a cropped sports top the other day, she kept asking how short it was meant to be but I never thought anything of it, until yesterday she said it was because she was fat, my heart broke when she said those words.
I told her she wasn't fat, that there was more fat on a Twiglet, probably not the best choice of words but I was shocked. She said that it (the fat) was sticking out when she was sitting down. I told her again she wasn't fat.
Dd is not fat, she's thin, she has put a little weight on during lockdown as she lived on carbs.
I never talk about my weight or her weight in front off her. Ive struggled with mine for years and am paranoid about it and I dont want her being like that. We do have scales but they stay in our spare room out of sight. I've only weighed dd once about a year and a half ago, she got a bad bug twice inside 2 weeks and lost a lot of weight, which she never regained until lockdown. I was worried about her as she lost so much so wanted to check she was in "healthy" range. I never told her what the scales where for, told her that they where to show us how big she had got.
Sorry for the long post I was just wondering if anyone has any advice if dd brings it up again. I don't want her worrying about her weight at such a young age or any age