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Where to find mental health support for my daughter

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GiraffeinPinkPants · 14/08/2020 16:07

DD9 is 9 and has always been a worrier. Her mental health has deteriorated recently, Covid-19 and the subsequent lock-down most likely the trigger. She's been suffering with panic attacks, food aversions and irrational fears mostly in regards to being poisoned, feeling ill, dying or a family member dying. I have contacted the GP on l two occasions over the last 4 months. On both occasions I was given some advice and references to books and activities to help her cope with anxiety. We have tried a few different activities and have been through some great books which help to explain anxiety, however in the long term, they haven't made much of a difference.

I feel helpless. I wish I knew how to help her more, help her to cope with her feelings, and just for her to live a happy life. She's so young and it's sad that she has to deal with so much at this age. Ideally, I would like access to professional resources that can provide her with coping mechanisms, before she hits puberty but I can't afford private mental health services and the GP have made it clear that her symptoms are not severe enough for referral to CAHMS. I'm not sure what is considered sever at her age, but to me, they are pretty severe. No child at her age should be struggling in this way.

Any suggestions?

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Blankblankblank · 15/08/2020 18:43

If you phone or email these people they may be able to advise on where to turn. They gave me a loads of different places to contact for my DS, getting him to engage in what had been set up was a different matter. I hope they can help.

youngminds.org.uk

Lougle · 15/08/2020 18:47

The GP can't decide whether a specialist service will see her. Can you self-refer to CAMHS in your area?

DD1's paediatrician (a specialist in ASD) saw DD2 when she was 5 and said that he 'could' refer her for ASD assessment, but he didn't think it would go anywhere. Several years later I decided to self-refer to CAMHS and on the first appointment I was told that the worker was sure she had ASD, but they needed to assess her formally. She was diagnosed with extremely high scores.

10brokengreenbottles · 15/08/2020 19:55

I agree with Lougle, see whether you can self refer.

If you did want to go private The British Psychological Society has a search tool here.

GiraffeinPinkPants · 17/08/2020 21:07

Thank you for the replies. I have found the details for a self referral in our area and will contact them tomorrow to find out more about the process.

Feeling quite teary this evening. Wishing my little girl was just happier and healthier.

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