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Anyone with a young child with autism?

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LRR28 · 24/07/2019 14:39

Hiya. I'm not sure if I've posted in the right place. My DS is 3 years old and is going through tests for autism, I have been told he most likely has it but he is still undiagnosed and I have no experience with autism so I was wondering whether anybody here could offer their opinions
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  • He's scared of loud noises or noises he doesn't recognise, he will cover his ears and scream
  • he won't go in the bath but loves water
  • he doesn't talk at all but can hum tunes to certain songs eg. ABC song, shape song
  • he has no understanding of what I'm saying to him except 'no'
  • he communicates by taking my hand to the place he wants something from eg. Will take me to the sink if he wants a drink
  • he is still in nappies as has no understanding of me trying to potty train him
  • he can't role play with toys, just lines them up
  • he rocks side to side swaying his arms to show his excitement and spins around in a circle a lot
  • he gets extremely frustrated over everything and kicks and lashes out and theirs no consoling him
  • he won't try foods he doesn't recognise
  • he won't go into indoor places without screaming, it's like he is scared, therefore is yet to go to nursery

We've had hearing appointments, we see speech and language, awaiting appointment from paediatrician, also on the waiting list for child development and sees health visitor

OP posts:
Itwouldtakemuchmorethanthis · 27/07/2019 12:41

Can I recommend Montessorium intro to numbers, and intro to letters? The number one particularly is very peaceful and will help as the mix of size/digit/amount/notes is very clever.
As for hair cuts we went with every day but only a tiny bit. Same time same part of bedtime routine. It becomes unremarkable. Don’t hurry and start with a single snip or hold of clippers against the head. My ds’s Dad and brother both had buzz cuts for years to keep our little scared one company. Little acts of love are very important.

Syeda30 · 17/07/2020 13:06

Hi LRR28
I know its been long time since you posted this but if you can reply how is your boy doing?did he get diagnosed?how is his speech. Is he talking and what helped you most. Hope he is doing great.Sorry for questions but i am in same boat as yours and want to know your man's progress for mental reassurance. Thanks!

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