DD, 15, has been diagnosed with depression and is 1 week into taking fluoxetine. She has been struggling for months and over the last 12 weeks has not been functioning well at all. In the middle of all this, my ex mother in law, her Grandma, is taking all my DDs behaviour very personally. DDs Dad died 4.5 years ago, and her Auntie died last year, so MIL has had a lot of tragedy. DD is not feeling able to talk to her Grandma atm, but every day I have a sobbing Grandma on the phone, demanding to know why DD won't talk to her. I have explained that she is ill, and that this is why, but MIL won't have it. The pressure that this is adding to DD & me is immense. Does anyone gave an idea of how I can get it across to MIL that it is NOT personal? TIA.