I'm in the process of moving my 85yo dad in with us, we lost his partner to cancer yesterday and he has Alzheimer's, it's not severe yet but I don't think he can live alone. We are struggling financially, DH's company has just gone into liquidation and we don't know whether he will still have a job next month. I'm looking into carers' allowance and I'm really bamboozled - it says it's not means tested, but it also says you can't claim it if you earn more than £139 a week? I don't understand it. I don't usually earn more than that, I do a bit of proofreading and editing work which sometimes exceeds that, but sometimes I don't get any work for weeks.
Sorry if I'm being thick, I've just spent several days at my lovely stepmum's bedside and I feel like I'm drowning right now.