Brokenhearted

[Jasmine007]

Hi here goes my child is about to enter the fostercare system. I don't know where to start. He's now 13 has autism and adhd and his behaviour is become out of control the relationship between him and his mother has broke down and is very fragile and can be aggressive. And neither wanna be around each other.. My child lives his mother and used to come to me weekly untill the past year.. He's only been a handful of times. Everything has seemed to fall apart.. I feel myself I can't provide the help he's needing it's heartbreaking for me I've a younger children too who I have think about due too his uncontrollable behaviour

I feel like I've failed as his dad and the guilt is unbelievable

I'm so sorry to read this.

Is there a reason he can't come to you?

With the right support, I mean. No judgement if that's a no, sometimes it's just not safe. I can't imagine the guilt and sadness you must feel, but you cannot control the behaviour of another and you have other children and their safety and mental health to think of as well.

How will foster parents cope? Katie Price has had a lot of issues with her eldest, but I think he's had to go into institutionalised care now? If you look her up, she might have some advice printed in her books, tweets or whatever?