oh great talk about making me feel worse soup dragon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would NEVER put my childrens lives at risk as no sain person would, but as i said other than leave 1 at home alone where theirs a risk of them strangling themselves, burning to death in a fire, falling down stairs and breaking their neck, jumping out a window, burning themselves on the cooker...the list is endless, i think i'd rather take my chances with putting one in the boot seat driving down a 30 mph road for 1 mile to take them to nursery and then school and then risking it when i was to pick them up then taking the risk of leaving them in the house (which before you say why would you leave them in the house alone..of course i wouldnt im using it as an example)
But what do you mean by a proper 7 seater? you mean like a van or minibus???? as i dont know what other 7 seaters their is
Also you say you would absoloutely not put a child in the boot seats never...so why did you buy a 5+2 seater then? if you have no intention of using the back 2 seats why not buy a 5 seater? as the boot when the 2 boot seats are down are no bigger than a 5 seater car!
I also agree with what sazm said that if your car were to be hit side on then it would probably not be my children that were in the boot that would suffer as much as my child that was in that side seat that got hit!!!!!!!!!! so it depends what type of crash you have as to who sustains the injurys!
I know you can have a crash anytime anywhere but i dont do motorway driving so thats really the speed of a 90 mph car hitting the back ruled out! most i do is take my son to nursery and back which is 1 mile theire and 1 mile back as when i do food shopping etc they would stay home with my hubby.
I dont mean to sound rude by anything ive worte but im very protective of my children and if anybody dares try to make out that i am an irresponsible mother intentional or not i will immeadiately jump on the defensive! and i deffinately do feel like your criticising me for considering putting 1 of my children in a boot seat!!!!!....their are ways of saying things and i think your just damn right rude and insulting to both me and Sazm, surely it would be more irresponsible of me if i were to keep a 5 seater car and have 1 child loose in the back seat sitting on another ones lap as its not that often you have a big smash (ive personally not had 1 in 9 years) nor my hubby in 12! but i must say i do a lot of hard breakig when idiots pull out or dont stop at round abouts which is when my loose child in the back would get hurt!
At the nd of the day you mainly find that those quick to judge others on their childrens safety/parenting are the ones who actually need to take a look at themselves.
You obviously brought your 5+2 seater for a reason and i dont think it was to just look at the 2 back seats now was it!