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Handholding - pre diagnosis but complicated

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EllyMcBelly · 14/01/2026 12:22

Apologies this is going to be long.

Im 52 and lost my sister to breast cancer over 20 years ago. She was 36.
I had a recall on mammogram 3 years ago but it was a fibroadenoma. Next Mammogram was on 18/12 last year.
i was away over new year and on the 2nd Jan developed cellulitis in my breast - hugely painful and swollen and local hospital gave me antibiotics and sent me away.
get home on the 3rd to a recall again.
I phoned the screening centre on the 5th to explain what was occurring and to check I was still ok to go in on the 7th.
The cellulitis was slightly better by then so they were are to do a 3D mammogram, ultrasound and biopsy as well as trying and failing to drain what may or may not be an abscess. they are “50/50” and think it does look very suspicious. Last time they’d said they were pretty confident it was fine.
additionally the fibroadenoma has quadrupled in size (2.5 cm now) and now I can feel it.
They extended my ABs to 12 days but by day 10 I was feeling unwell and so am now being tested for c-diff.

I’m fed up. Im trying to stay positive but I just feel like it’s kick after kick right now.

I dont know what I’m looking for other than a bit of handholding (results on 22nd) or advice from any e who has been in such a weird complex situation before with potentially three different things going on.
im a bit fed up tbh

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Knittedfairies2 · 14/01/2026 12:39

I'm sorry to hear of your issues and I'm not surprised you're fed up! I'll hold your hand while you're waiting for the results; the waiting is brutal. I hope you feel better soon💐

EllyMcBelly · 14/01/2026 12:51

Thank you 🙏🏻

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EllyMcBelly · 15/01/2026 13:13

I’ve just had a call from the breast clinic and they want to bring my appointment forward from the 22nd to the 19th. They’ve got my results apparently and had a discussion today about “different pathways” and also want me in on the 19th
I doing myself a disservice by presuming that’s almost definitely bad news?

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SmockAndBeret · 15/01/2026 14:17

I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope you have some real life support.
The use of the word "pathway" suggests that treatment is needed, but try not to catastrophise; if there's a problem it's been discovered and is being dealt with now.

The waiting is horrific, I know, but it's great they're moving things forward for you.
All the best 💐

Nonamelass · 15/01/2026 20:56

Hi there. Gosh I feel for you being in the awful waiting ‘club’ especially as you have been through loosing your sister. I’m just emerging a bit from the waiting as I’m about a month in front of you time wise..I now know my operation date ( early feb) . The waiting to know bit is awful but it does feel a bit better once you know and have a plan in place IF it actually is BC. This isn’t my first time around the block , l had it at 35 , 24 years ago all fine til I was 50 all fine again til now at 59. Over that period treatments have come on in leaps and bounds and they really know what they are doing with BC if that’s actually what you have.
I am sending you a big warm hand hold and very best wishes.

EllyMcBelly · 18/01/2026 10:20

Nonamelass · 15/01/2026 20:56

Hi there. Gosh I feel for you being in the awful waiting ‘club’ especially as you have been through loosing your sister. I’m just emerging a bit from the waiting as I’m about a month in front of you time wise..I now know my operation date ( early feb) . The waiting to know bit is awful but it does feel a bit better once you know and have a plan in place IF it actually is BC. This isn’t my first time around the block , l had it at 35 , 24 years ago all fine til I was 50 all fine again til now at 59. Over that period treatments have come on in leaps and bounds and they really know what they are doing with BC if that’s actually what you have.
I am sending you a big warm hand hold and very best wishes.

Thank you and wishing you the best of luck.

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