My darling dad (age 83). He finished 7 weeks of radiotherapy 2 years ago for throat cancer. It was horrendous at the time, but he pulled through and has had one year of being fit and well and off the feeding tube. He's struggled to chew but kept spirits up and has been self-sufficient.
There has now been a complete turnaround. In the space of four weeks he has lost a lot of weight and is very frail and weak, needing to walk with a stick. An emergency CT scan has shown cancer is now in his lungs, bones and liver. I feel like I am in a dream as I write this.
The consultant has recommended he try immunotherapy. My dad is pretty stoic, he will take it as it comes. However the last two weeks of radiotherapy nearly broke him and he was admitted to hospital.
He lives on his own (about 3km walk away so fortunately near by). I have made up the spare bed in his room incase I need to stay over.
I was just wondering if anyone had experience of an elderly family member going through immunology treatment and how they fared? I know it's hard to predict what the side effects will be.
My dad didn't fully comprehend what the consultant was saying about how much the cancer has spread as he was asking me afterwards where the tumour was, I don't know how much to tell him to be honest :( The reality of this being his last Christmas is a hard thought. I just want to do what I can to best support him. He has two teenage grandkids who he loves to bits, and a surprise 6 month old grand-daughter (my niece) so I know he wants to try whatever treatment he can.