Hey, I’m not sure if this is the right place to be honest, but I have started spiralling on Google after a trip to a&e yesterday. I apologise for the long winded post. I’m - 32yo F.
I found a lump at the hinge my jaw, right in front of my ear around 5 months ago, it was only tiny- size of a pea I’d say and to be honest I forgot about it until a few days ago when I started getting horrendous shooting pains and pressure up my face and head on the same side, it was relentless. I had a feel around and it’s massive (to me) around 3cm, very hard I thought it was my jaw bone and it doesn’t move at all. I booked in with my gp yesterday and they promptly sent me to a&e with a suspected jaw bone infection, as I had a fever too.
Got to a&e, had my bloods done which were all clear, as were my infection markers. The Dr wasn’t satisfied, so she sent me for an Xray of my jaw, which was also clear.
She suspected the solid lump is a preauricular lymph node. Upon further examination she found more lymph nodes, these were hard and rubbery, one behind my head, and 4 on the opposite side, one including another preauricular lymph node. I asked her what she thought it was and she just said she thinks it’s my lymph nodes. She wouldn’t say if she thought it was infection or not. She said she was going to refer me to ENT to take a better look.
I’ve been having awful fatigue and feeling ‘run down’ from being tired, I only work 2 days but they’re long hours and it takes me 2-3 days to get over it. Including naps on my days off, but I also have 3 kids 1 of which is SEN who keep me very busy. I’ve been getting shooty head pains, vertigo and pressure for a few months now, they’re really quick and sharp but over in a few seconds, so I put that down to recently needing new glasses for a squint & double vision and I’ve been experiencing what I can only describe as hot flushes that I’ve been joking about being early menopause! I have to strip down, but again they don’t last long either, then I quickly feel cold and shivery. I have also been itchy all over but again, didn’t think much of anything really as separate symptoms.
It’s only afterwards I started putting two and two together and to be honest, it doesn’t look great. Which I think she also knew, but didn’t want to say out loud. She just kept telling me not to worry and wait for my ENT appointment, but I also work in healthcare and I could just tell by her face she suspected something serious.
I guess I’m looking for reassurance perhaps? Maybe similar stories that have turned out to be completely nothing. Currently trying to stay positive. Thank you for reading x