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My beautiful mum

17 replies

feejee · 03/07/2025 03:46

My beautiful mum is dying. Pancreatic cancer, what a cruel horrible disease. I wish she could just slip away now and be free. Forever in my heart.

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Ziga · 03/07/2025 03:55

Thinking of you and holding your hand. Tell us about your beautiful mum.

feejee · 03/07/2025 04:10

We've had her almost 2 years longer than I ever thought we would. But it will never be enough. I cant imagine never hearing her voice again. She got me through the really hard parts of being a new parent. So patient and always wise.

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SpinningLikeAGirlInABrandNewDress · 03/07/2025 09:44

Sending you hugs and love ♥️ my mum passed in April with Pancreatic cancer and it was so hard to watch. My thoughts are with you xx

P00hsticks · 03/07/2025 10:30

So sorry to hear this - I had an uncle who suffered from it and as you say it's a horrible disease. Sending you a virtual hug.

feejee · 04/07/2025 23:11

Thank you. She's gone. Peaceful in the final parts thankfully. I feel empty, not what I was expecting.

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GreenTurtles3 · 04/07/2025 23:15

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your mum is at peace now xxx sending lots of love

GalaxyAddict · 05/07/2025 01:23

This is happening to my Mum right now, she had pancreatic cancer 4 years ago, but was lucky to have the Whipple operation. Just 6 weeks ago she got a secondary in her lungs. It’s been so quick, she is on a syringe driver & comfortable at home, but I would think she has days left

Devontownie · 05/07/2025 05:36

I am so so very sorry.

I lost my beautiful Mum on Monday. Also after a horrible fight that she didn't deserve either.

COPD. Was horrific.

Just keep on swimming. The only thing they wanted was for us to be OK, there's another hill to climb now ( Christ - I didn't realise it would have to be sane straight away? ) but we are nearly there.

Howl when you need to, breathe when you can, and just keep on swimming love.

Xx

Devontownie · 05/07/2025 05:37

GalaxyAddict · 05/07/2025 01:23

This is happening to my Mum right now, she had pancreatic cancer 4 years ago, but was lucky to have the Whipple operation. Just 6 weeks ago she got a secondary in her lungs. It’s been so quick, she is on a syringe driver & comfortable at home, but I would think she has days left

Stay strong. Xx

RabbitsRock · 05/07/2025 05:43

So sorry OP & to everyone who has either lost their Mum or is losing them 😢 Cancer is an absolute bastard.

feejee · 05/07/2025 08:03

I feel strangely ok. Empty. I thought i'd be completely broken. I guess it'll come in time.

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EveSix · 05/07/2025 08:11

Sending love and strength. Now take things steady and remember that there is no need to rush anything.

Devontownie · 05/07/2025 10:54

feejee · 05/07/2025 08:03

I feel strangely ok. Empty. I thought i'd be completely broken. I guess it'll come in time.

It will, you might be just so relieved she is at peace now, and not being taken slowly by that horrible Cancer.

I thought I would be a mess about her laying in a funeral home on her own and cold ( should see the size of the pair of socks I sent in with her 😂 ) but I'm not. I feel fine about it. I'm just so bloody relieved she isn't in pain anymore or as distressed as she was towards the end.

However you are feeling is the right way for you to feel right now.

MrsPatrickDempsey · 05/07/2025 11:12

Just sending love to all of you having to go through this.

feejee · 06/07/2025 03:39

Thanks everyone. Still feeling a bit numb, a few times sadness. The whole body pain i wasn't expecting.

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BitOutOfPractice · 06/07/2025 03:43

Goodness op I’m so sorry. It sounds like she truly loved and was truly loved.

feejee · 06/07/2025 09:52

@GalaxyAddict i'm so sorry you have been going through the same thing too x

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