Just putting my 2 pence in here. I do think a standardised, one size fits all approach to something like this is outdated and not necessary.
I am in the midst of this right now. I have an appointment on Thursday to get the results on my biopsy. I was supposed to be receiving them via a phone call, that's how confident my consultant was that I had nothing to worry about. I then received a phone call with an appointment and have now had a letter confirming the appointment.
I have called and requested more information from 2 different teams prior to my appointment and have been told in no uncertain terms, I can't have this and I must wait for my appointment.
I am someone who really struggles with the unknown, I would far rather know possible eventualities, no matter how awful they might be. I also appreciate, others are the polar opposite of this and would rather not know until they are sat infront of a professional who can answer their questions.
IF my appointment is based news, I would rather of had the last week to prepare any questions I might have and do some research.
IF my appointment isn't bad news, I will be absolutely livid that I have been left in this position for the last week when I categorically asked and could've had an awful lots of stress taken away.
IMHO, if a patient requests information about their own medical health, then I think they should be given it. I don't believe anyone should have the authority to withhold this information from me personally.