It would probably help if I had an exact destination in mind. We're sort of looking Dorset/Somerset, but I could have my mind changed...
Want
Somewhere quiet, no noise after 11pm type thing, definitely rural
large pitches (we have a big tent) with electric
reasonable standard of facilities, hot showers, enough clean toilets etc
level pitches
family friendly
would like (but not essential)
childrens play area
swimming pool
do not want
to pay a fortune
evening entertainment either on site or within staggering home distance (fed up with being woken at 2am by drunk people making tea, or having the giggles)
We tend to use the site as a base and go out, so not that bothered about things to do there, although woods and walks would be nice. We're planning on going for 5/6 days (sunday to friday or monday to saturday, or whatever)
Anyone got the perfect place?