Courage to leave

[Suebae]

I have been going through the most unimgainable, inhumane, cruel treatment. My home is not safe to be in or to sleep in right now because my thoughts and my reality is being mocked just so my neighbour can create a false reality script, it is a form of neighbour abuse via psychological violence and abuses. My neighbour is attempting to link himself to me by giving me a reason to complain about him, pathetic, i know. My relative knows what my neighbour is doing to me and has offered me sanctuary at their home. I now have to move in with my relative just so my neighbour can not have access to me. It is longterm neighbour abuse but it feels like longterm domestic violence and abuses. My home feels so uncomfortable, so i will move out for my health and safety, but never terminate my tenancy. I am 50 years old and really do not want to terminate my tenancy, at the same time i do not want to be psychologically violated and abused. The psychological violations of privacy, violence, abuse and bullying is too much for me to cope with at the age of 50 years old. I am experiencing mental health disabillity duscrimination and stigma. Just having a safe place to go too, makes me hopeful that i can begin my healing process. It is frightening the level of evil that is in this world.

Can you explain a bit more what they are doing? Have you contacted the police about their harrassment of you?

If they are being violent, you need to call the police, and have them press charges.
You shouldn't be driven from your home, regardless of your age.

No i have not contacted the police. I have instead contacted my housing manager who has been kind and helpful by giving me permission to stay with my relative until i transfer to a new home.

No i have not contacted the police. I have instead got permission from my housing manager to install home security and i have got anti social diaries too. Also, i have been accepted on four applications to get a housing transfer to a new home. In the meantime i will be staying with my relatives.

I'm glad you have a safe place to go but please consider reporting this to the police. It's not ok for you to be hounded out of your own home 😕

I will get myself a lawyer to find out my human rights and to find out what the law is in accordance to social housing and neighbour abuse. In the meantime i will work with my housing manager and i will stay with my relatives so that i am safe. I am okay.

There isn’t really anything legal called ‘neighbour abuse’. There are things like Harrassment, breach of the peace and other anti social laws that might apply here.

You don’t really need a lawyer either, you could just phone 101 and tell them what’s been going on and they would arrange for someone to come and see you to understand more and decide what crime has been committed.

Then they can investigate him for committing those crimes. They might decide he has to move from where he is, or he may even need mental health help or other things to at might contribute to his behaviour.

they would also help make sure if that if you want to move then that happens quietly and calmly with no contact or aggression from the neighbour.

Thank you for your advice. Much appreciated.

I live on the top floor of a house conversion flat, my neighbour has hired a man that has a criminal conviction to run me out of my home, the man uses an equipment of some sort that he puts to my neighbour ceiling to inflict pain in to my inner ears. I live above my neighbour home. I am contacting my lawyer in the morning to find-out what i can do legally to protect myself and to help me with my housing manager, it is a social housing property and i do not want to involve the police. I am safe, my family has taken me in to there home as a health and safety precaution and my family has taken me in to there home to take away my neighbour access to me. My neighbour kept saying that he and his visitors want to meet me and that he is using me as someone to harm and that he wants something with me, that is why he attempts to target me to use neighbour abuse as a way in to my world. My neighbour said that he is encouraged to harm me because i am a easy target. I am safe and i am okay. My neighbour does not have access to me anymore. I am safe, i am in a safe place and i am okay.