Husband's changing mood.

[Sunnygirl44]

Hi,

I have been married for over 6 year's and since my son has been born, my husband has been treating me badly.

His usually not happy with my cooking, how I raise our son and what type of food I eat and tease's me sarcastically of my choice of dress.

Before we had our son, he acted like the perfect husband.

He would have an argument without me expecting one with a huge outburst in an angry tone and then apologise a lot for his behaviour and blame himself. This happen's almost every day.

Am I being emotionally or verbally abused?

he is trying to erode your confidence. Why can’t he cook for himself? Maybe he was always this way but he feels he can show his true colours now you have a child together. Stand up for yourself every time he tried to belittle you.

Emotional abuse definitely. They let the mask fall away when they feel they've trapped you with a child. Leave asap. It's never getting better. Sorry

Your both absolutely right!

Even when I needed him most, at time's, he would walk out on me. Usually, when we had an argument which would mostly start from him.

He would come after a couple of hour's and apologise and promise to change but the same pattern would happen again and again.

Each time I asked him, where he had been. He would say, he was at his parent's.

This happened a lot in the last few year's.

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I have now started seeking the support from my family and have started spending less time with him.

When I do spend more time with him, usually weekend's, he would bring up this pattern again of ever changing mood's and argument's.

I forgot to add, he is divorced and has 1 son from previous marriage and 1 son with me.