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Jjandboom · 26/09/2024 23:04

I have a friend who's a fair bit younger than me who has two little girls , ones 4 and one is 8. She's very overpowering on her kids perhaps because she's younger I don't know but very angry type parenting. Her eldest is in my daughter's class this year along with a few other friends of my daughter's. This girl hates my daughter playing with anyone else and gives her abuse for doing so..she can be very catty with her , and say very mean things. This has been going on a while and I've sat on it and watched it pan out and indeed she does get the hump of my daughter plays with anyone else and can be very mean
.my daughter has said that she is very different towards kids than she is adults. This child also cries at drop off (year 5) and doesn't have many friends. I've tried telling my own daughter stay away, be nice, don't rise to it , the usual but she finds it frustrating and stands up for her friends and says no! Don't!

It's got to a point where the child has hit my daughter and is causing upset between alot of them. A friend spoke to school re it. I have emailed. The child got wind today she may be in a spot of trouble and has told her mother a spin story and the mum has started texting me..asking what's going on? Why is her dd so upset? She's been deeply upset by my child and others....

She will never see it and is marching down school tomorrow....god help them... I've tried to stay neutral and kind but she's been really rude to me and basically said it's 🐂 poo 💩 and poor her darling little girl. What on earth do I do here because I wanted school to sort it and now she's dragged me in on it.

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Tittat50 · 26/09/2024 23:08

Just try leave any detailed reply for now and leave it until you hear from the school. They should have a good gauge of the dynamics and what's going on.

I know kids are truthful but there may be varying other perspectives. Just sit tight until you get more from the school. You can nicely say as much if she's awaiting some reply from you.

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