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IrisTea · 20/09/2024 19:47

On the dying wish of my FIL both my children attend the same school that my husband did. It is a private school and as the years have gone on, I grow deeply unhappy with how the children within the school talk to each other / interact with each other. It’s a whole other level of cruelty. My DS is very, very sensitive. He used to have one close friend but now that friend plays with a larger group of boys who have decided to mock and ridicule my son- and on the good days they ‘simply leave him out’. He has a wonderfully quirky personality and is a good foot taller than 99% of the boys. It’s so painful to witness as he walks into school head down. He’s in year 7 and I have heard that year 8 brings with it more contentment and people start to find their true friends? Is this anyone’s experience? Or have people found it best to start the wheel moving to get him into a new school as soon as possible? Watching him waiting for his phone to ring and crying once he gets into the car is breaking my heart. Everytime one classmate adds him to a group chat he is removed by this particular group of boys. The school councillor described their actions as a systemic bullying in a group. This was at the junior school and unfortunately they have all moved up as a gang in one class and my son isolated in another. Widening the divide. 🥺does it get better?

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DustyLee123 · 21/09/2024 07:43

What does your son want to do? Don’t spoil his school experience for someone that’s not here anymore.

IrisTea · 21/09/2024 09:09

DustyLee123 · 21/09/2024 07:43

What does your son want to do? Don’t spoil his school experience for someone that’s not here anymore.

I don't keep them at the school
Because of the wishes anymore, I keep them there because I'm unsure whether or not it would be the case of out of the frying pan into the fire. Which is why I was curious about other people's experiences. My son just wants to fit in, he appreciates the familiarity of the school

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Dontlickthebin · 27/09/2024 09:00

Didn't want to read and run - no advice I can offer, but really sorry your DS and you are going through this. 🌺

IrisTea · 27/09/2024 12:39

Dontlickthebin · 27/09/2024 09:00

Didn't want to read and run - no advice I can offer, but really sorry your DS and you are going through this. 🌺

Ahh thank you. Things seem to be picking up.

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