Hi there! My daughter has been by bullied two girls (one of them for over a year and the other one for a few months) they where best friends before all this! When it all started with child A I reached out to the school and they did nothing so I reached out to the parents as I thought we where friends but they turned on me and have tried to turn my own mom friends against me by spreading rumors about me. Child A acted the victim even though I had messages and video evidence of the bullying apparently my child was the problem and it has been escalating to the pint where she's telling my child to kill herself! and now child B has started bullying my daughter too. Shes gotten friendly with child A again even though she bullied child B last year too. At first I thought "what did my child do to make this happen is she the problem?" But having spoken to other parents these two girls are causing hassle for other kids too(but the parekts dont want the hassle of dealing the school or the patents because they know whatvtheybare like) . We've told my daughter to distance herself from the girls and everytime she does and makes a new group of friends child B starts texting the new friends acting nice and sweet amd befriends then leaving my daughter on her own again, she sets up group chats excluding my daughter and then continuously sends her snaps of her out with these kids. Child A is a whole other story I help out at the local football club and the child is spreading rumors about me and saying really nasty things about me and her dad does be present and he doesn't reprimand her for it! She called my asshole because I told her it was her turn. I'm at my wits end over it. I was even called Into the school being accused of excluding these two girls from days out to the zoo/beach/ice skating (all days out happened during summer and Christmas holidays) all of which I paid for and i only let my daughter bring one friend on days out as its too expensive but it all backfired on me and apparently I'm the problem for not having them in my house even though they are bullying my daughter she is still expected to invite them to our house - her safe place!! I've gone to the school time and time again but the bullying policy is crap and the bully is treated with respect and the victim is treated like a bully, there's more respect shown to the bully because they cry when called out on it by the teacher but my kid held it together and I was told she doesn't seem upset but the other girls where very upset and they side woth the bully because of their crocodile tears. My daughter fainted in school and child B took a picture of her and posted it online( this is primary school and my question is why does she have her phone in school? We all only live 5 minute walk from the local school) Do these parents not check their kids phones? I check my daughters phone everynight and some of the things I've seen being posted are horrendous! . sorry for the long post but I just don't know what to do next because my daughter has been ill the past few weeks because of it all and I feel like I've exhausted all avenues and I just needed to vent. My husband says we need to toughen our daughter as she's going meet more people like these girls throughout her life and I agree with him but she can't seem to get away from them it's like they are jealous of something.