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False accusations

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HannahT10 · 29/05/2024 21:57

A boy at school will just go out of his way to wind up my son every opportunity he gets. I had a word with the school and I changed my son's after school groups so he only had the school day to deal with him. The staff agreed that for months this boy would not leave my son alone and they would help to keep him away so my son had the freedom to play with who he wanted rather than being trapped by him.
One day at pick up my son had clearly had enough and snapped. My son got majority of the blame even after they said that they'd keep them apart and my son had been a victim of this boys almost jealous behavior. My son was falsely accused of being malicious when he'd actually put up with this behavior for 4 months without any retaliation.
However the Mum has been told numerous times her son needs to work on how he interacts with other people. She is constantly saying there's nothing wrong with her son's behavior. If the parent think the sun shines out of their child, how do you expect any change?,

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Bubbles2011 · 31/05/2024 12:31

I'm so sorry you and son have to deal with that behaviour. My own daughter is going through something similar, the parents are the main problem in both situations, I'm dealing with it over a year and the lies amd accusations are now being spread about me as well as my daughter. It's a horrible situation but the school should have had your sons back and told the parents that their son has been hassling your son for months. I think the schools are afraid to stand up to the parents and if that's the case the bullying etc continues plus schools policies on bullying are outdated and need to be re-assessed! In my child's school the bully doesn't get in trouble and both the victim and bully and brought into the office together to give their sides of the story and the bully is always stronger and therefore the victim won't tell the while truth because they are intimidated and then when the victim eventually reacts and lashes out they are the problem and the school stands by the bully! I really hope your son can find a new group of friends to stand up for him and support him.

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