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Child gets the blame

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mum20092013 · 29/11/2023 11:19

My daughter has learning difficulties and adhd getting to top off me know why it’s always my daughter fault she done this and that like kicking another child enc but she only apparently does this to one child this is the wierd thing we give this other child a lift to school and back that other child can never do anything wrong in the parents eyes and always blaming my child but my husband said that the other child is do winding my child up and when she ask her to stop she doesn’t stop my daughter is saying so if that other kid is getting hurt by my girl right she wouldn’t be happy to be near my child surely 🤔but did seen a few times that the other child do things to my child aswell but she is denying it and keep blaming my child I got feeling that other kid do this for attentions enc as we take ours out nearly everyday and she sits in her room parents don’t interact with that child if my child is definitely doing all this surely that other kid wouldn’t go near mine child and come to play sometimes 🤔what can I do please help as my child is always to blame in the other child’s parents

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AnneLovesGilbert · 29/11/2023 11:25

That’s very difficult to read. Stop giving this child lifts, I’m not sure why you would. Stop having play dates. Have school told you your daughter is kicking people?

The way of stopping this - have nothing to do with this family - seems so obvious I assume there’s some information missing?

Reugny · 29/11/2023 11:26

As the children clearly don't get on simply tell the other parents it is best of the children stay away from each other.

This means no lifts to and from school, no playdates and no other outside school activities with one another.

mum20092013 · 29/11/2023 11:35

School has never mentioned my daughter hurting anyone

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Reugny · 29/11/2023 17:01

OP you aren't going to win the argument with the other child's parents so simply keep yourself, your child and the rest of your family away from them.

If their child has a habit of doing this with children close to them, then don't be surprised within a few years you hear that it's happened again.

lunar1 · 29/11/2023 17:02

Stop the lifts.

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