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Parents who bully other parents

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Kljg · 03/02/2023 17:25

This is a very long one but I'll try to keep it short.
Basically me and my 2 children are victims to parents and their children bullying us.
We have been verbally and physically assaulted in and outside the school grounds.
My eldest has SEN and suffers with his mental health and anxiety and has told me his life is worthless and he wants to kill himself. He has been pinned down, kicked and punched by these children and their friends. They have called us all sorts of horrible names and 1 child assaulted me recently in the playground. The school have been notified but its still ongoing, the police have also been notified.
These parents allow their children as young as 4 years old to call me and my children disgusting names such as silly fat ct and motherfr
Threatening to beat my children up in school and outside of school.
We have been followed and they stand in the way of where we walk so we are unable to pass them as they will then shout obscenities at us.
1 parent slandered me all over Facebook accusing me of been a safeguarding issue therefore the school have stopped me volunteering there. They have spread rumours about me therefore other parents have joined in on ignoring me and my children. I am on anxiety medication because of this and its getting too much. Why are parents like this? Why can't they just leave me and my children alone?

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Quveas · 03/02/2023 17:30

Generally, parents aren't like this. What have the school / police said and done?

ReadtheReviews · 03/02/2023 17:41

At this point, no, before this point, I would have taken my dc out of school and probably moved house. What do you have to gain by putting you and them through it? It's not your fault it's happened, but put all your time and energy into getting the hell out of there.

LibrariansGiveUsPower · 03/02/2023 22:03

That’s horrendous.

Move schools, move house, get your kids well away from there.

FrogOfFrogHall · 03/02/2023 22:09

That's absolutely awful, I'm so sorry you and your son are going through this. It's completely unacceptable and the Police should take a targeted campaign of ASB very seriously especially when there is a child with SEN involved. Do they have a full account of all the details and how much it's been going on?

Kljg · 06/02/2023 11:42

The Headteacher of the school has been very slow at contacting me back after lots of calls to them regarding this so I have reported this to ofsted and other services and i actually have a meeting with them on Wednesday. The local schools are unable to have my children as they are full and they don't have the right SEN support for my eldest.
The police are unable to do too much as I have no evidence, I had to record our journey to and from school for evidence of all this which then pissed the parents off and accused me of editing the video and stalking them. My children's education is no concern whatsoever.
I used to volunteer at the school as a lunchtime supervisor but these 2 parents then slandered me on social media saying I was a peado and a safeguarding issue, I was accused of bullying their children in the school so instead of investigating it they just got rid of me.
1 parent tried to attack my mum so I defended her and put her in her place to protect my mum, her child has now taken it upon himself to target my son, stealing his belongings, attacking him in the playground.
Me and my children have been shunned by most of the parents due to these malicious lies and my children are upset as to why the parents who used to talk to us now completely ignore them.

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Kljg · 06/02/2023 11:52

This has also been ongoing since September last year and the police have log numbers from every single incident but with the following us and hanging around areas where we can't pass they are unable to issue any warnings as there's no evidence of that and they can't class it as intimidation or harassment. There is 6 children age ranging from 4-13 and their mums. Then the malicious lies all over social media and the other parents believing it all therefore shunning my children. I don't honestly care if people ignore me but it's not my children's fault so why take it out on them. It's awful.

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