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School bullies throwing child’s school iPad - what to do

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Spoonerella · 24/01/2023 08:15

Hello
My son experienced some bullying by a group of 6 boys in his class in year 7. The school tried to minimise it as something off Tik Tok but as per the school’s bullying policies it amounted to sexual assault. As it wasn’t handled properly, my son experienced a 6 week period of what seemed like open season on what kids could get away with and included cyber bullying, physical and verbal abuse. Eventually I got the headteacher involved and things got better. Two of the bullies continued with low level shoving and kicking and now we are into year 8 and each of them grabbed my son’s school iPad and threw it on the floor repeatedly or at him hard in lessons. The teachers don’t seem to notice and my son isn’t shouting in lesson to draw the teacher’s attention. My son says speaking up before led to things getting worse and him being labelled a snitch. The school want him to report it with names and they will look for other witnesses. However previously witnesses were shy in coming forward, probably because these 2 aggressive boys seem to rule with fear.
I am very concerned re what is happening and advice would be appreciated. I wish the school had involved the police last year to scare these aggressive kids. Instead they wouldn’t tell us what measures they took and things seem to bed escalating again. I am imagining if my son’s school iPad is broken, that would be criminal damage and time to involve the police.
Thanks in advance for any advice.

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MintJulia · 24/01/2023 08:28

He needs to report it, with names. And you need to insist the HT does something about it.

If anything amounts to sexual assault again, report it to the police. You are the adult here, you need to support your dc in getting it stopped.

Thesonglastslonger · 24/01/2023 08:44

Taking the iPad is theft, yes report to police and as criminal damage. Definitely report the assaults. Kicking is not bullying it is assault.

Write to the head with a list of the problems, the dates, and state that as the school has failed to protect your son from physical assault, sexual assault, theft and criminal damage, you are no escalating the matter to Ofsted and the Department of Education.

The school sounds shit, can you move schools? He’d be much better with a fresh start elsewhere- even if these boys stop what they’re doing, they’ll still be around intimidating him etc. I don’t see a happy future for him there. A long commute would be better.

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