We recently found out that some mums (one being a teacher) have been saying nasty things about my dd to my dd’s friends.
Telling them she’s horrible and to stay away from her.
To add some context - she used to be quite a timid girl and we had to move her school during primary due to her sister being bullied. In the last few years she has really grown in confidence and loves friends and socialising. She honestly doesn’t have a bad bone in her body but seems to exude a nice warmth and kids like her.
One of these mums has gone out of her way to try and make my dd look bad to other mums (her dd used to dominate my dd until her confidence grew) and the other is holding a grudge since we left the school years ago.
Now I know that I sound like I think my dd is perfect. I don’t - but I know she’s got a good heart and she never says unkind things about people which makes me think she’s a pretty lovely girl.
My question is why would fully grown adults bitch about a child to kids that aren’t even their own and try and control their relationships? It baffles me. My parents never involved me in petty stuff and I’m trying to be the same but im
quite upset that these people would try and spread nasty rumours about my children.