DS is in Y4 at an independent school. He has told me that another child in his year constantly kicks him, hard, when adults are not looking. DS has reported this to adults at the school, who apparently tell the other child to desist, only for the behaviour to be repeated a few hours later, or the following day. DS says there is no point reporting it anymore because nothing ever happens to stop it.
As background, the child in question is a year younger than the rest of the class, and physically smaller. The child’s behaviour is clearly challenging for the staff to handle: extremely disruptive in lessons, deliberately sabotages sports matches, damages other children’s possessions and is rude to children and adults alike (I’ve witnessed all these behaviours myself in person or over Zoom so it’s not just DS making stuff up or exaggerating). DS says the child has been given various consequences (eg timeouts, detention, being sent to the head), but there seems to be no improvement.
I haven’t been happy that this child is disrupting DS and others’ learning but I didn’t want to say anything to the school because I trusted them to deal with it. But now over HT I’ve heard about the kicking. Physical violence seems to me a whole different can of worms and not something that any child should have to put up with.
What do any teachers here think: should I raise this with the school and if so, who should I raise it with? I can see that their teachers are doing their best, and I don’t want it to come over as complaining about them to the Head.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Find advice from others who have experienced school or workplace bullying on our Bulllying forum.
Bullying
Would you raise this with the school?
8 replies
Foundation · 20/02/2022 21:16
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.