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6 year old daughter punched by a boy at school

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Shergill15 · 20/09/2021 16:09

Looking for advice from anyone who might have experienced similar. I picked DD 6 up this afternoon and as we were leaving the playground I noticed she had a visible red mark on her face. (Have tried to attach photo). She wasn't crying or visibly upset. I asked what had happened and she said a boy in her class had punched her when they were getting their things from the cloakroom. She hadn't told the teacher. Took her back in and notified the teacher, acknowledging that DD hadn't told her at the time. Whilst we were there, another mum approached and said her son had been hit in the neck by this child. Teacher said she will make a note, whatever that means.

This boys name has come up before as being aggressive and he doesn't seem to be specifically targeting DD. However on this occasion he has caused a visible injury. I think there may be some behavioural/emotional issues at play and I'm not unsympathetic at all, however I don't send my daughter to school to be hit. I've told DD she must tell the teacher if it happens again, it's not telling tales and that it was very wrong what this boy did. Is there anything else I can/should do?

6 year old daughter punched by a boy at school
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christinarossetti19 · 20/09/2021 16:13

Encourage your child to tell a teacher straight away each time if happens (if it does - hopefully not!).

If she tells you and not the teacher, email so that it's logged.

You're doing the right things.

CrotchetyQuaver · 20/09/2021 16:17

I think I'd follow that up in writing so you have a record yourself if this incident gets brushed under the carpet. And acquaint yourself with the bullying policy. This might be the first of many incidents.

Shergill15 · 20/09/2021 17:14

Thank you. Yes I've stressed to her that she must tell the teacher/me. Following up in writing is a good idea x

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BluebellsGreenbells · 20/09/2021 17:19

The school will use your email as evidence that the boy has issues and needs additional help.

So by doing so you are helping him -IYSWIM

christinarossetti19 · 20/09/2021 18:17

If you do follow up in writing, just describe what you noticed, did and what the teacher said.

Don't use the word 'bullying' - one-off (hopefully!) aggressive behaviour isn't bullying

Shergill15 · 20/09/2021 20:15

@christinarossetti19

If you do follow up in writing, just describe what you noticed, did and what the teacher said.

Don't use the word 'bullying' - one-off (hopefully!) aggressive behaviour isn't bullying

Good point - yes I don't think it is necessarily bullying as he doesn't appear to be singling DD out per se. It's a one off with her (so far) but there have, I believe, been incidents with other children.
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