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A local bully

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Tryingmum2019 · 18/06/2019 13:24

Never written on this site before but always my go to for advise. Basically I've done something very silly and regretting my choices.. so asking what you think and advise. I know I'll likely get in trouble with you guys.
So this lad is 8 and my son is 7. Not so long ago he got a pumping knife and held it upto my son and told him he would kill him. Ok he wouldn't of meant it, but my child was scared stiff for ages, wouldn't go out and play, and upon telling the parents they didnt even bring the kid round to apologise or anything. So yesterday he finally went out to play and the lad punched and kicked my son on the floor. Went to speak to the parents, again flat response. So I saw his bike at the park he'd left when I went to go talk to him, and I stashed it in a bush, obviously I only wanted to do this for a short while. Anyway cut to the quick, I went out once dark to put again fence and messaged the mum to say I'd seen it. I know this would incriminate myself, but I did want the bike returned. I know I did wrong. So anyway, what do you think.

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BlueMerchant · 18/06/2019 13:27

I'd have left the bike in the bush- along with it's slashed tyres!
And be pleased I'd been so restrained.

2beautifulbabs · 18/06/2019 13:31

Hi Op sorry to hear about your poor DS I can't stand bullies however I don't think your going to get it to stop unless you report this other kid to the police for threatening behaviour with a weapon and actual physical violence the child's parents clearly don't give a rats about reprimanding his behaviour also if this kid is in the same school as your DS report it to them as well so they can keep an eye out for your son

I would however say what you did with the bike was a little silly I know easier said than done as emotions do fly when it's someone you love and care for deeply being bullied but don't risk getting yourself into trouble or swooping as low as this family and their son you need to remain level headed and strong for your DS sake I really hope you can get it sorted for him Thanks

Tryingmum2019 · 19/06/2019 14:10

Thank you so much for the replies and not not sugar coating replies. Yep very silly, (slaps forehead) live in a village too so wont take long to get about. Just stick to playing on the garden from now on, end of the day it's the reason we choose to live here.

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