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Bullying

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Kids being bullied because of parents?

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YellowSquare · 29/03/2018 10:07

Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating since we were 16 and about four years ago we decided to adopt, we ended up adopting three children. Recently our middle child (12) has brought up both students and teachers are bullying her and making fun of her for having two mums and being adopted. I don't know what to do as my gf is away at the moment and the schoolboard won't listen to me?

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GreenTulips · 30/03/2018 22:41

Have you got any specific evidence?

Have you spoken to school?

Can you ask your DC to write it all down and keep a diary?

Have you tried the school governors?

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YellowSquare · 07/04/2018 16:48

Evidence ranges from the child in question being pushed over, never being invited round to full class parties and whenever she asks teachers they ignore it.
I have spoken to the school and nothing seems to have changed.
She keeps her own diary and some of these events have been recorded, the governors said they can't do anything which is bs.
But thank you anyway!

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Benandhollysmum · 20/04/2018 15:56

id make an appointment with the teachers in question..in fact when is parents evening? Ask them * why you bullying my child? Refrain from punching them in the face but put them on the spot.
Bullies are prats and most rarely change their way, in fact if you knew about their homelife you’d feel almost sorry for them, in fact you would if they weren’t tormenting the hell out your daughter. You need to remind your daughter bullies are pathetic and unhappy inside. Your daughter lacks the esteem to shrug these nasty kids away. If they weren’t picking you her for having lesbian parents they’d pick on her some other way. As I’ve mentioned in another post have you tried getting your daughter into martial arts? when a kid learns how to protect themselves they gain confidence..the way a kid who does martial arts is if someone tries to bully them with namecalling ect is they can call me names but I know I can kick your arse.. and the next time they try to push her over, she be to quick for them to do anything.

Look into it but you start with the teachers and kick up hell..

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