Hi,
My son 11 been having problems with this girl since the day they broke up for christmas. He came out she was after him and his teacher calmed him down. Think he might of been complaining to me at home just thought they sort it out.
Then they started back in the new year and again remember for two weeks he would come home moaning about this girl. Honestly I was like what is with this two seriously.
So got off the bus to go home and had this girl parents come up saying their daughter been going home crying my son been awful to her. So spoke to my son even went into the school got the head mistress to sort it out etc. I was upset they did not know of these issues. My son admitted to saying unkind things. He flips really lays into you with this cussing I mean I have told him off about this.
Then this girl admitted it too. Felt like because my son has adhd they were more saying it's him etc.
So after this thought it was sorted out he said him and the girl are friends again.
Then remember for a week he kept saying he felt sick but he went in. Think he started going on again about this girl. Then they had week off. He went back monday and he has been awful coming home and later saying this about no one likes him etc.
Then yesterday found out he being bullied from my dad. As my stepmum looks after this girl who told her that my son being bullied.
So today gone in spoke to head and senco. It has come back he is being bullied and they even took him out of the class. While they spoke to yr 6 classes. The head had him doing jobs for her.They have enough to record it down as bullying. Don't think the head liked telling me this as she said his adhd affects his friendships. As he known as the boy who disruptive the class. But I said this kids know he is different they play on this to get him in trouble.
My concern is with him name calling. Trying to tell him to say to them leave me alone. Stop calling me this. Get him to not verbally attack. He is bad.
I have always said as my son don't really physically fight back that he just saying doing that to defend himself. I have suspecting theres something going on.
Any advice?